Sahih al-Bukhari 1280
Book 23: Funerals (Al-Janaa'iz) · Hadith 41
Hadith text
Narrated Zainab bint Abi Salama:When the news of the death of Abu Sufyan reached from Sham, Um Habiba on the third day, asked for a yellow perfume and scented her cheeks and forearms and said, "No doubt, I would not have been in need of this, had I not heard the Prophet (ﷺ) saying: "It is not legal for a woman who believes in Allah and the Last Day to mourn for more than three days for any dead person except her husband, for whom she should mourn for four months and ten days
Zainab bint Abi Salama bataati hain: Jab Sham se Abu Sufyan ki maut ki khabar aayi, Um Habiba ne teesre din peeli khushbu mangwai aur apne gaalon aur baazuoon par lagayi, aur kaha: "Beshak mujhe iski zaroorat na hoti, agar maine Nabi ko yeh farmate na suna hota: 'Jo aurat Allah aur Aakhirat ke din par iman rakhti hai, uske liye kisi bhi murda ke liye teen din se zyada sog manaana jaiz nahi, siwaye apne shohar ke, jiske liye woh chaar mahine das din sog manaaye.'"
Sahih al-Bukhari 1280 · Book 23, Hadith 41