Sahih al-Bukhari 1283
Book 23: Funerals (Al-Janaa'iz) · Hadith 43
Hadith text
Narrated Anas bin Malik:The Prophet (ﷺ) passed by a woman who was weeping beside a grave. He told her to fear Allah and be patient. She said to him, "Go away, for you have not been afflicted with a calamity like mine." And she did not recognize him. Then she was informed that he was the Prophet (ﷺ) . so she went to the house of the Prophet (ﷺ) and there she did not find any guard. Then she said to him, "I did not recognize you." He said, "Verily, the patience is at the first stroke of a calamity
Anas bin Malik (رضی اللہ عنہ) bataate hain: Nabi ek qabar ke paas se guzre jahan ek aurat ro rahi thi. Aap ne usse Allah se darne aur sabr karne ko kaha. Usne kaha: "Chale jaao, tumpar meri jaisi museebat nahi aayi." Aur usne Aap ko pehchana nahi. Phir usse bataya gaya ke woh Nabi the, isliye woh Nabi ke ghar gayi aur wahan koi darban nahi mila. Usne kaha: "Maine aapko pehchana nahi tha." Aap ne farmaya: "Asli sabr museebat ki pehli chot par hota hai."
Sahih al-Bukhari 1283 · Book 23, Hadith 43