Sahih al-Bukhari 1299
Book 23: Funerals (Al-Janaa'iz) · Hadith 57
Hadith text
Narrated `Aisha:When the Prophet (ﷺ) got the news of the death of Ibn Haritha, Ja`far and Ibn Rawaha he sat down and looked sad and I was looking at him through the chink of the door. A man came and told him about the crying of the women of Ja`far. The Prophet (ﷺ) ordered him to forbid them. The man went and came back saying that he had told them but they did not listen to him. The Prophet (ﷺ) said, "Forbid them." So again he went and came back for the third time and said, "O Allah's Messenger (ﷺ)! By Allah, they did not listen to us at all." (`Aisha added): Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) ordered him to go and put dust in their mouths. I said, (to that man) "May Allah stick your nose in the dust (i.e. humiliate you)! You could neither (persuade the women to) fulfill the order of Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) nor did you relieve Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) from fatigue
Ayesha (رضی اللہ عنہا) bataati hain: Jab Nabi ko Ibn Haritha, Jafar aur Ibn Rawaha ki maut ki khabar mili, Aap baith gaye aur udaas nazar aaye, aur main darwaze ki dararon se unhe dekh rahi thi. Ek shaks aaya aur Jafar ki aurton ke rone ke baare mein bataya. Nabi ne use unhe rokne ka hukum diya. Woh shaks gaya aur wapas aakar kaha ke usne unhe kaha magar unhone uski baat nahi maani. Nabi ne kaha: "Unhe roko." Phir woh phir gaya aur teesri baar wapas aakar kaha: "Ya Allah ke Rasool! Allah ki qasam, unhone humari koi baat nahi maani." (Ayesha ne joda:) Allah ke Rasool ne use hukum diya jaakar unke munh mein mitti daale. Maine kaha: "Allah tumhari naak mitti mein rakhe (yaani tumhein zaleel kare)! Na to tum Allah ke Rasool ke hukum ko poora kar sake, na Allah ke Rasool ko takleef se bacha sake."
Sahih al-Bukhari 1299 · Book 23, Hadith 57